Prom Dresses (The Ultimate Guide)

As you may or may not know, I'm planning the prom at my school this year with J! We are so excited. Here are some tips that I've learned...

Before you start looking...

• Know your budget: this is the most important part! There's nothing worse than falling in love with a dress way out of your budget. Figure this out with your parents before doing anything.
• Know your size: this is helpful for ordering dresses online and reducing the chance of having to exchange sizes (just such a hassle!). 
• Know what you like and dislike: you might figure this out as you start looking at dresses and trying them on, but if you know beforehand, you can set filters on websites and let the staff know at the store. Things to think about: dress color, sleeves/sleeveless/strapless, dress length, slits, cut-outs, jewels, etc. On the other hand, keep an open mind if you're not 100% sure, you may find the perfect dress that isn't what you were envisioning.

Where to go...

• Trustworthy sites over sketchy online sites: that dress is super cute AND it's super cheap... but the website is some site you've never heard of and looks a bit sketchy? Sometimes it's too good to be true. I'd rather pay more for a dress you can trust with a good return policy. Always google the website and its reviews (don't trust the reviews listed on the site- they're typically all mysteriously positive!). 
• Discount sites and outlets: if you don't want to spend $98502 on a prom dress, I totally understand! We're in the same boat. I don't see the point of buying a super expensive prom dress that you're only going to wear once. Yes, you can resell, but there's always risk in that. The BCBG outlet is always a popular choice to go, and 6pm.com is the best hidden secret. (and totally safe! Promise! Make sure you check its return policy though because I've never returned anything from there.)
• Check back often: There are typically occasion sales where they discount some of the prom dress styles, so check back for your favorites at the various websites and stores!
• Check out other sections: Don't limit yourself to the "prom" section. There are lots of gorgeous dresses in the bridesmaid and evening gown sections!

My Recommendations 

• Nordstrom
• Dillard's
• Belk
• Saks Fifth Avenue
• Nordstrom Rack (lots of short dresses!)
• David's Bridal

Found a couple of contenders you want to buy?

• Check the return policy: just in case. My family are huge fans of Nordstrom's return policy; it's awesome. 
• If needed, find out how much alterations cost: this might just be me because I'm short, but I will probably need my dress altered, if it's complimentary with your purchase, take advantage of that!
• Do a double take to make sure it's good: It has happened to me, I bought something, and when we got home, we realized there was a tiny tear or something small, but yes, noticeable.

How to Be a Better You

I've learned recently not to take things too seriously and not to worry too much about the future, but rather focus on the present. I've been living by this approach, taking things day by day.

That being said, I am thinking about upcoming events and making sure I'm prepared... but for the most part, I'm keeping my worries and thoughts on the present. It's a really nice way to approach life, especially since I'm infamous for my constant worrying and anxiety.

Here are some of my favorite things to do to bring out my best self (one of my unwritten now written 2015 resolutions, so general and cliche- I know, I know) and focus on my present self:

• Work out: Over break, I rediscovered the love and simplicity of working out. I hate going to the gym because I hate seeing people I know while working out... (I know, it's so stupid and it sucks! Other than that and the occasional creepy old man, I love going to the gym!) But my fear of running into people is enough to keep me working out at home. I love using the Cafe Mom videos since they're easy to follow, and only 30 minutes per workout (includes the warm up, work out and cool down)- while you still get a good sweat. The one I do the most is the 30-Minute Cardio video, however I've recently started the Cardio Kickboxing one. My goal is to continue doing one a day (time permitting) while school occurs. My favorite thing about working out is not only that it burns calories, but reduces stress and makes you more energized! Perfect break in the middle of doing lots of homework.
• Read a book: Instead of watching another episode of Friends on Netflix (really tempting I know! I haven't done a Five on Friday in a while, but Friends on Netflix would definitely make the list), reading a book doesn't rot your brain like TV and can provide a similar experience! I forgot how amazing it is to read and imagine the story.
• Clean Your Room: When my room is cluttered, my brain is cluttered. I'm pretty sure there's some scientific study that can go with this. That being said, and my indecisiveness of what to wear, my room is almost always a mess. My goal is to clean my room today or Friday to help!
• Stay Organized: I live by Google Calendar. I will do an intense post on how I like to stay organized soon. (I go all out!) It's nice to see all my events in one place, from tests to social events to work, I can organize and plan my time out accordingly.
• Keep Up With Current Events: This might just be the news junkie inside me, but I love keeping up with current events. It helps a lot when people are discussing them and you can contribute to the conversation instead of just nodding along. You become a more aware, smarter and considerate person when you learn about the world that you're living in. My personal favorite way is by following news on Twitter, because I'm always on Twitter, so I have time to read those articles as I'm scrolling through my Twitter feed. I follow Time.com, The NY Times, WSJ and The Associated Press on Twitter.

I'll be writing a post soon on how to be your best school self (since new semester!) soon! Have a great rest-of-your-week.

Guest Post: 10 Tips to Surviving High School

I am so excited to have my girl, JSC, write a guest post for me! JSC and I have been close friends for 7 years now! She's always been a huge supporter of my blog and I was so delighted when she sent me this post. 

JSC is currently a senior (!!!). Ideally, her post is all about surviving high school... I couldn't agree more with all of these tips, and I wish I had known them before I started high school. Check it out!

It’s definitely the best and the worst of times. High school is hard. It’s stressful and sometimes just too much to handle. There are mean girls and your best friends. Sometimes your best friends turn out to be those mean girls. Boys always seem to pose a distraction to schoolwork. Teachers are crazy. High school is definitely an experience you will never forget (even if you do want to forget it). As a senior graduating soon, I wanted to share some of the things I learned.

1. You’re smarter than you think! Everybody seems to stress over schoolwork like crazy these days! When you feeling overwhelmed, take a deep breath. You can do it and school isn’t worth the tears. Trust me.
2. If you aren’t comfortable doing something, don’t do it. If you don’t want to go to that party, don’t. If you don’t want to hook up with that boy your friends are pushing at you, don’t. Stick to your morals. Your future self will thank you.
3. Save your best outfits for big days. I know many people like to dress down during days with a lot going on, but I’m the opposite. I have always found that I am more confident in a good outfit. When I have big tests, I try and wear clothes that make me feel confident. It gives me that extra boost to get through that math test! 
4. Always wear a thong with legging or yoga pants. I see way too many panty lines at school now. Just get a thong. Please.
5. Start college applications early. I stressed way too much over college apps. Start them early. The less stress you have during senior year, the better.
6. Make a connection with at least one teacher. I am a quiet girl during class. This made it kinda hard for me to find a teacher I really liked and connected to. I wish I had become friends with my teacher, as my other friends have. They were able to get recommendations from teachers, and they always had someone to talk to during rough patches!
7. Be kind. Everybody has problems that nobody else sees. Just be kind as you can to everybody, even if they haven’t been the best to you. You could make somebody’s day!
8. Be your own best friend. You are going to find yourself alone at sometime during high school. Knowing you have the confidence and self-esteem to survive really helps those sad times.  
9. You dreams will change and that’s okay. Freshman year, I wanted to be a nurse.  Sophomore year, I wanted to be an actress. Right now, I am leaning toward teaching.  Don’t stress over your college major in high school. It’s a big decision, but don’t cut your childhood short. It’s not the time to worry over adult things. The time will come for that later.
10. When given the chance, sleep. When staying up to 3am studying for a test becomes your normal, you need to sleep. I have found when given the chance to sleep or go out, sleep always works out better. Always try to be well-rested for a new week of school.  You never know what your teachers will throw at you. 

I hope these help! I know not everyone will agree with some of these suggestions, but I wish someone had told me them before my freshman year!

Thanks JSC for the guest post! 

How to: HAGSY (Have a Great School Year!)

Didn't it feel like yesterday that cute boy signed HAGS in your yearbook? (Such a disappointment he didn't include his number, am I right?) And now it's time for the new school year.

I personally love school! (Other than the stress) I strongly believe that school should be an enjoyable experience, and here are my tips to HAGSY!

Before School Starts:

• Get all your forms ready. Don't just block school out just because it's summer. Make sure to turn in any forms needed for the upcoming school year: parking passes, off-campus passes, etc.
• Get your schedule. Find out how and when you can get your schedule. If you're going to a new school, familiarize yourself with your classes' locations before school starts. It's okay to be lost during the first week of school, but it's even better to be prepared.
• AP Classes? If you're taking AP classes, check your school's website to see if you have any summer assignments! Most of the time, AP classes have summer assignments due on the first day of school, and they don't take "I didn't know we had a summer assignment" well.
• Get ready. High school doesn't typically have school supply lists. Some classes might require some special supplies (ex: math might require a particular calculator), but otherwise, you know how you like to stay organized. Do what you need to stay organized.
• Get organized. Just because school hasn't started doesn't mean that you can't get a head start on organization! I love using an agenda for school and I live by Google Calendar. (Detailed blog post on organization coming soon!) Figure out how you prefer to stay organized: whether it be by color-coding, just writing the due dates, or what you need to do each day.
• Fill your backpack. There are some things I always have in my backpack, no matter what:
• Hand sanitizer: you don't want to be that girl who's never at school because she's always sick
• Tampons: there's always going to be a friend who's on her period. She'll thank you!
• Mini hairbrush: #LongHairProbz
• Tissues
• Extra pencils & pens: just in case I forget my beloved pencil pouch
• Hair ties and headband
• Spare change: you might have to print something out from the library or realize you forgot lunch.
• Extra batteries: If your teachers don't have extra batteries or calculators, you don't want to be taking a test when your calculator dies.
• Student ID & off-campus pass
• Go to orientation. If there's an orientation for you, go to it! You can learn lots of information about the school and ask any questions you have.

During the First Weeks of School:

• Make a good first impression. Trust me, first impressions are a big deal. Wear your favorite outfit. You are at school to learn, so don't just focus on your first impression for your peers; the way you act in class matters. Be polite and respectful, smile, speak in class, observe how others act, and listen to the teacher. It's embarrassing to be called out, especially during the first week of school. Appear confident. When you're confident, others can tell. (More on confidence in a future post!)
• Make a friend in each of your classes. Chances are, you'll be doing fun, cheesy "get to know each other" activities on the first day of school. Listen and talk to others! You might not become BFFs with your entire class right away, but eventually, find at least one good friend in each of your classes. Follow your classmates on Twitter and Insta after you've started talking to them. Once you become close, exchange each others' numbers. Having a friend in each class makes it so much easier when you need to pair up for a project. It's also great to be able to text someone asking what you missed in class when you're absent.
• Join clubs/sports. Join any club that sounds interesting to you! Attend clubs' interest meetings to find out more about the club. Is it a big club? How often do they meet? What do they do? When do they meet? Find out all their information and decide whether a club is a good fit for you and your schedule. If it's not for you, you don't have to be a member, but at least you gave it a shot! Clubs are a fun way to involved in school, meet people with similar interests as you, continue doing something you love, and colleges love hearing that you were involved. Don't join a club just because you want to put it on your college app, you won't enjoy the club if you don't love what you do in it! Try out for your favorite sport. Some sports accept everyone, like cross country. At my school, about half the school does cross country, so it's a great way to meet people and stay fit!
• Meet lots of people. With clubs, sports and classes- there are so many opportunities to meet new people! Make sure to follow your friends on social media and get their numbers. Eat lunch with friends and just be yourself. Don't just stick to one group, it's great to have friends in lots of different groups! It's fine to be close with one group, but be friendly with everyone. You don't have to be BFFs with everyone, but it's great to know that you can start a conversation with lots of people. High school is a great time to meet lots of different people.
• Set a schedule for yourself. Set a schedule for yourself and stick to it! Whether you wake up 30 minutes every day to get ready, or 10 minutes... stick to it. Whether you start homework right after school or after eating a snack, stick to it.
• Go to sleep. Being busy is awesome! Clubs, sports, school- you're having a blast. Of course, being the busy bee you are, you still need your beauty sleep! Set a sleep schedule and aim to get at least 7.5 hours of sleep each night. 
• Be productive. Doing your math homework while watching Gossip Girl might be fun. But what happens when you're on your third episode of the night and still on problem #3? Get off social media and do your homework at a desk, then you can watch Gossip Girl afterwards relaxed.
• Study. I don't care if you didn't need to study in middle school; middle school is nothing compared to high school. Study and stay on top of things. Always do your homework to make sure you get good grades. Grades do matter in high school. Don't have that freshman year that you'll regret and hate yourself for the rest of your high school years!
• Stay fit. It's easy to get lazy after a long day of school, but stay active! As we all learned from Legally Blonde, exercise makes you happy. If you don't play a sport, that's fine! Just make sure to stay fit. 30 minutes of your day to reduce stress, re-energize yourself and make yourself happier is well worth it. I love CafeMom's 30 minute cardio workouts! 

• Attend school events. Friday nights mean football games! There's no better way to spend your Friday night than cheering on your football team with the rest of your school and hanging out with your friends! High school knows how to throw some awesome school events. Don't miss out on fun events just because you're studying or too lazy. Balance is key!
• Eat healthy. There's nothing worse than eating an unhealthy lunch and feeling tired and sluggish during your afternoon classes. Always have a fruit or vegetable! (More on healthy snacks and lunches to come soon!)
• Stay hydrated. 99% chance you aren't drinking enough water. Ice water refreshes you like no other! During those cold winter days, hot water is perfect for those sore throats.
• Balance yourself. With school, clubs and sports, don't forget some much needed "me time!" Treat yourself to a nice Friday night in reading a book or a Sunday brunch date with a friend. Don't forget that high school is supposed to be "the best years of your life!" (other than college!)

These are all my tips to HAGSY! More HAGSY posts to come soon! What are your favorite tips to having a great school year?

Before School Checklist

Here's what I need to do before school starts! I'd suggest doing some (or all) of these tasks that you'd like!

• Find schedule, look at classroom locations: No one likes to look lost on their first day!
• Find parking spot in parking lot: For sprints to the parking lot during lunch!
• Get backpack ready: Obviously.
• Get school supplies ready: Kids that forget a pencil on the first day don't make a good first impression.
• Finish summer assignments: Make sure you check their due dates! Some classes note that regardless of what semester you have the class, it is due the first day of school.
• Paint nails: nothing says back to school like a nice mani/pedi.
• Get back to school outfit ready: check the weather!
• Pack lunch/know lunch arrangements: Always be prepared.
• Get enough sleep tonight: Don't be that kid who falls asleep on the first day of class!
• Relax: for the last time in a while!
• Update calendar with events: Start organized, stay organized.
• Clean room: Start clean, stay clean.
• Organize closet: For all those outfit preparations.

Rejection

I have many flaws, but the one that stands out the most is that I'm a worrywart.

I'm always worrying and stressing over something, perhaps it's my need to not fall under expectations, or my fear that I'm not good enough... but I'm always worrying. I don't handle rejection or fear well at all.

Am I the only one? I don't take rejection well. After working so hard for something, (it hurts the most for me when it's something like a job, officer position, etc.) and not getting it, it makes me question everything... "What did I do wrong?", "What could I have done better?", "Why am I not good enough?", and I usually compare myself to the others who got the job, and wonder "What do they have that I don't have?"

This is most definitely not the healthiest response for rejection.

I don't mean to sound snobby or anything, but I haven't had to deal with that much rejection in my life. All the things that I've worked really hard for (officer positions, jobs, etc.), I've gotten. I've been really lucky, but I did apply to jobs that I knew I was prepared for and I worked very hard to prepare for job interviews with my mom.

Since I don't think I'm the only one who has this fear of rejection (hopefully my fear of rejection is greater than yours), here are some tips that I found online* (words are not my own!) to help deal with rejection:

• Don't get angry. You are likely to feel angry, since you're human and it's hard to not take rejection personally. However, the reason you didn't get the job was probably the result of a variety of factors and not just a fault of yours. (source)
• Exercise. Though you may not feel like it, hitting the gym or getting outside can help you feel better, especially after you get a rejection letter or call. “It takes about 20 minutes of exercise for the endorphins to start being released in your body,” says Richard Deems, co-author of Make Job Loss Work for You. Endorphins are natural pain and stress fighters produced by your body. The activity will help you clear your head, expend some energy and recharge for the next round. (source)
• Accept it and move on. Put full steam into the next best opportunity you are working on. (source)
• Understand That You Aren't Alone: Many more people are turned down for jobs than land them - that's a simple fact. Once you accept that, you can focus on the next opportunity. (source)

I think these tips are all great for healthily dealing with rejection. Rejection is tough. It's nice to talk to a close friend and seek advice. It's nice to go on a run to clear your thoughts. It's nice to write/talk about it. (Like I am right now!)

If you're not sure if you're about to be, don't worry over the fact that you've been rejected, but enjoy the time you still have. If you show how happy you are, your peers will see and notice that. Always be appreciative.

[Side note: While all this post has to deal with rejection with jobs and positions, rejection from friends and crushes also sucks. Just remember what Oprah said: "I don't want anyone that doesn't want me." Take time to appreciate your true friends and spend your time with them, appreciating them instead of being upset over those who rejected you.]

Why You Should Volunteer

Volunteering is something my mom has installed in me for a long time. Ever since 3rd grade, I've been volunteered. I have volunteered with Girl Scouts, school and by myself. By myself, I've volunteered at the SPCA and a local kids museum.

• Giving back to the community is important
• You can possibly find your new passion
• You can meet new people
• You can have a new activity to do
• Possible networking opportunities
• Looks good on college apps

These are just some of the many reasons why you should volunteer. When you find something you're passionate about, volunteer in that field! Whether you're interested in being a doctor or you're an avid reader, you'll be able to find a volunteering opportunity suited for you!

Places to look at for volunteering:

• Libraries: tasks* may  include sorting and shelving books | great for: if you want a bit of peace and quiet, you love to organize, you want to check out what books to read, you want to become close knit with your library. Tip: Some libraries allow you to listen to music (with headphones) while shelving books... ask! The time will fly by while you're listening to your favorite album.
• YMCA / Kid's Museums: tasks* may include playing with kids, set up and clean up | great for: if you love being with kids, considering being a teacher/working with kids in the future, love to have fun, if you need a lot of hours- time flies by! Tip: Don't be afraid to ask for advice! The staff have lots of experience working with kids and can teach you a lot. Listen and ask questions. "How can I stop two kids from arguing over a toy?" Most places with volunteers have information sessions where they'll explain the basics and you can ask all your questions. Don't be afraid to ask and speak up! Always ask for help when needed.
• Animal Shelters / Zoos / Aquariums: tasks* may include cleaning the animals' habitats and rooms, exercising the animals, learning about the animals' personalities to "advertise" them to potential owners, prepping the animals' food, laundry | great for: animal lovers, those interested in working with animals in the future, those interested in learning more about animals and how to care for them. Tip: Always ask for help. If you're ever in a situation with an animal where you don't feel comfortable, ask for help! Pay close attention to animals with special needs: dietary, behavior, exercise.
• Hospitals: tasks* may include paperwork, running errands | great for: those interested in perusing a career in the medical field, those who want to make connections with doctors (future internship?), being in a medical environment. Tip:
• Food Banks / Pantries: tasks* may include sorting food, serving food, prepping food | great for: those who want to help out the less fortunate directly, don't have a particular interest in anything specific, want to try something new. Tip: Food banks typically let you volunteer with friends. Talk to your local food bank about volunteering with a friend. Volunteering with a friend makes the time fly by!
• Habitat for Humanity: tasks* may include building houses | great for: people who want to get a work-out while volunteering, those who love being outdoors, those who want to learn more about woodworking, architecture and housing. Tip: Don't like building houses? What about taking apart houses? Habitat for Humanity has other volunteer opportunities if you're not up for the task of building a house.
• Museums: tasks* may include cleaning habitats, working the information desk, giving visitors directions and answering their questions, working the galleries, and helping out with events | great for: those who love the museum's subject (whether it be art, history, science, etc.), interested in learning about the "behind the scenes" of the museum, wanting to learn more about the museum's subject, love helping others and answering questions. Tip: Always be enthusiastic and friendly when volunteering. The people you're helping are the museum's visitors and the museum needs visitors to function! 
• Tutoring: tasks* may include helping kids with their homework, helping them study for tests, understand tricky concepts | great for: future teachers, those who love to help others and kids, the "smart kids" who are typically providing help to their peers anyways. Tip: Always be positive. Don't stress out about the kid's progress, the kid is probably already stressed. As a tutor, you need to provide positive reinforcement and constructive criticism when needed. If you're struggling with a kid, talk to whoever's in charge.

While looking for a place to volunteer at, keep in mind...

• How far away is the place? Is the commute going to be an issue? Who's going to be driving you; will there be any issues for them?
• What is the time commitment? Are you expected to volunteer a certain numbers of hours a week/month/year? Are you expected to continue volunteering for the next month/year? Can you commit to the time commitment?
• What is essential for volunteers at this place? Do you have these traits?
• Is this something you're genuinely interested in?
• What exactly will you be doing? There's nothing worse than signing up to volunteer at a kids' museum expecting to play with kids, when in reality you're just cleaning up after they leave.
• How do you sign up for events? Do you sign up for events?

Questions to ask if not answered...

• Who do I need to communicate with if I'm unable to make it to my volunteer shift? How do I communicate with them? (Phone call, email?)
• What is the dress code, if there is one?
• What are my benefits, if any? (Not always the best question to ask when you're meeting for the first time... but listen up when they explain your benefits! Take advantage of your discounts, etc.)
• How long are the shifts? (If not already explained)
• How can I prepare myself for this position?
• What are my responsibilities?
• How will I be contacted about upcoming volunteering opportunities? (If not already set)
• How will I record my hours? (Do I need to clock in/out? Do I need to sign in?)

Things to Remember While Volunteering

• Always be friendly. You might have to work with the same person again, or every time! You might even be talking to the CEO... Who knows? 
• Listen. These people will give lots of advice and just want to help you do better. They are typically the experts in this field.
• Never be afraid to ask "Do you need help with anything?"

Other Tips...

• Don't volunteer everywhere. While it's great to try out different volunteering opportunities, once you find one you like, stick to it! You can advance and become good friends with the staff. It'll lead to more opportunities. (Like in my scenario... a job! When I first started volunteering, I just wanted a place to volunteer at. 4 years later and I'm working there now!) Similar to clubs, it's better to stick with one place than go to every place to volunteer at.
• Don't volunteer just for hours for a club or school. Volunteer for fun and as another activity out of school. Doing it just for school/club's hours loses the purpose of volunteering... which is helping out the less fortunate and those who need it.
• Make friends with the other volunteers. It's just like clubs, forming friendships with people who have the same interests as you! I met some really great friends through volunteering, and I got really excited when I saw that they were signed up for the same event as me. 
• Don't volunteer somewhere you're not needed. Some of my friends have volunteered at places where they ended up doing nothing for the time they were there. That was time you wasted doing something else, or volunteering at an organization that truly needs volunteers' help.
• Do communicate with your volunteer coordinator. If there's ever an issue, let them know. If you need something (another badge, etc.), let them know. Similar to college professors, they might not know you well unless you're an active volunteer who's communicating with them.
• Have fun! If you're not having fun while volunteering, consider looking for another volunteer opportunity that you'll enjoy.

Let me know if you have any questions! I love volunteering and I believe it's something that everyone should do.

Sam's Smart Shopping Tips: Getting the Most Bang Out of Your Buck

This post is going to be crazy. And you might want to buy everything afterwards. That's okay. At least you'll be shopping smarter and get the most bang out of your buck.

Let's get started!
Here is the J.Crew sale page, where we will begin navigating.

Before you start shopping: read the details.
Here you can read that the online sale is Extra 40% off, with some at 50% off;
While in stores is Extra 50% 0ff all final sale.
If you live close to a J.Crew, it might be worth checking out their selection before online shopping.
It could save you 10%...

Always check out the shipping fee before starting to shop.
The only thing worse than unreasonable shipping fees
Is feeling forced to pay it since you fell in love with an item online.

Now you can start shopping! Filter out your sizes to prevent the
"I want it but it's not in my size" moments,
and if you care about prices (who doesn't?), sort by price: low to high.
It sucks falling in love with a shirt way out of your price range.

You found an item? Yay!
Next thing is to check out the reviews.
I'm so glad J.Crew made a Reviews section when renovating their website.

I give a 5/5 for providing Overall Ratings! Thanks J.Crew!
Make sure to check out how many people reviewed the item.
The more people, the more reliable the overall rating is.
Check out the overall fit! Make sure to size appropriately.
(I'm a size 2-4 in shorts, but I got a J.Crew dress that I was a 00 in!)

Check out factory stores!
The quality is not as good, but the style is similar and the prices are better.

Check out department store sales too!
Sometimes they're even better than the actual manufacturer.
Narrow the hundreds of results by any category important to you.
I do mine by brand... whoops. I'm a sucker for brand names.

Online flash sale websites are another place to snag great deals.
Become a member of Rue La La here!

Nordstrom Rack is great for Nordstrom style at better prices.
(Though sometimes you might want to double check how good the price is,
Just because it's Rack doesn't always mean it's the best deal!)

Off 5th is great too!
Don't forget to read the small text, like I just did.
"Take Up To..."

Mix splurge and save.
Some of the cutest clothes have been from cheaper stores, like Old Navy.
Mix up your wardrobe for a happier wallet.

Subscribe to your favorite stores for the 411 on sales.

Become a fan.
There are often Facebook exclusives and always deets about upcoming sales, esp. flash sales!

Do you have any other great shopping tips? Share them with me! Hope this helped. Happy shopping! :)

Georgia Aquarium

Summer is the perfect time for me to catch up on posts I promised to type but never did. Here we go! This post is about the amazing Georgia Aquarium- the biggest aquarium in the US! If you get the chance to go, GO! It's an amazing experience and there is so much to see and do.

Everyone can pet sting-rays in the pool.
Don't be afraid, there's a staff member with instructions
over the microphone answering questions and
providing lots of information!
They feel really cool.

There are more touch pools inside the Georgia Explorer exhibit!
Touch sea urchins, starfish and more animals!

Loggerhead turtles are the cutest. Ever.

How cool is this lion fish? I think it's so pretty!

Crawl into a tunnel to see another view!
Don't rush through the exhibits-
The aquarium has tons of cool features for
an awesome experience!

The otters were so playful in the water and above it!
They stole everyone's hearts.

They're playing in an ice bath- too cute!

No zoom! You can pop up into a hole to be eye to eye with the penguins!

There are tunnels to crawl through to get close to the penguins!

Beluga whales are the CUTEST!

They're majestic animals.

So cute!

They were really close to the view I was at -
where there weren't any other visitors!
Find out the best hidden secret...

Jelly time.

My all time favorite animal.
I started tearing up during the beginning of the dolphin show
because I love dolphins so much.
I wish there was an exhibit just for the dolphins, but you have to enter the show to see them.

My tips for the Georgia Aquarium: 

• Take your time! There is a lot to see and learn; don't rush through the exhibits. The more popular exhibits (otters, beluga whales, etc.) have staff members standing there with more information about the animal and can answer your questions about the animal.
• Observe your surroundings. There are often tunnels and windows in the exhibits. Check them out! They lead to some awesome views! You can "jump" into the penguin exhibit, check out the other side of the water, etc.
• Timing is key. If you want to see feedings or a dolphin show, make sure to plan accordingly. Set an alarm on your phone, so you don't miss it! 
• Do everything the aquarium offers. If you're spending a long time at the aquarium, take advantage of all the aquarium has to offer! 
• There's an exhibit on the second floor, "Sea Monsters Revealed: Aquatic Bodies," so guests can see the inside of aquatic bodies. It's calmer and interesting.
• There's also a complementary 4D film on the second floor, perfect for children and just a relaxing, entertaining short film with songs about taking care of the ocean. 
• Get tickets for the dolphin show when you buy your tickets / enter the aquarium. It's worth going to! Make sure to go early enough to get tickets because it does sell out. The dolphins do awesome tricks, and there's a storyline to go along with the show. This is the only way to view dolphins, since you must have a ticket to enter and the dolphins' exhibit is near the show line.
• Visit the Oceans Ballroom. If you're eating at the aquarium, eat there. (If there isn't an event going on, the times I've been - there haven't been.) No one eats in there! The last time we went, there were just some staff members in there on their break. It's the best kept secret! The reason to eat there? It's not crowded and chaotic, like the rest of the eating areas for the aquarium. There's an amazing view of the beluga whales! That's where I've taken all my photos of the belugas. Eating and relaxing in a quiet area with your own personal view of the belugas? Yes please! It's the best kept secret because no one else eats in there! (We even asked last time, "May we eat in the Oceans Ballroom?" They said "Of course!") It is where people to pay to have their fancy events, so the view is great!

The Georgia Aquarium is amazing! If you get the chance to go, go!

What's Inside My... Longchamp?

I'm in love with this mini Longchamp bag my uncle gave me! It is perfect for traveling, and will always be in my car! (whenever it comes...) It's small, convenient and stores everything I need!

Le Pliage Toiletry Case

What's inside my Longchamp?
Sunglasses (similar)
Headphones (similar)
Headband (similar)
Pencils & a pen
Lip Balm
Phone charger & extra charged phone battery

I'd consider adding a snack like a granola bar in there too! Although with sunglasses inside, it's a bit snug. A lot of people use their sunglasses cases (which I don't have) for their sunglasses, so a granola bar would fit perfectly inside!

Let's Go On an Adventure... Washington D.C

I don't even know how many times I've been to Washington D.C, but the city never fails to inspire me. Knowing that the world's decisions are being made in the city that I'm in excites me! I love politics. I don't see how one wouldn't be interested in politics. Politics relates to everyone. While I'm not here to discuss my political views, I love the energy in D.C! I also love how there is so much to learn in D.C, all the memorials are beautiful, and being able to visit them, you're able to learn all about the history. And the museums. Oh, the museums. If I loved in D.C, every weekend, I'd visit a different museum and spend the entire day there. There is so much to learn in museums, and it's hard to truly learn everything when you're visiting D.C, and trying to cram as much as you can in the time you're there. I love how you can walk, and take the Metro everywhere in D.C, it's the best way to stay in shape... walking from place to place.

Georgetown has stole my heart. The last time I visited D.C, I stayed in a hotel close to Georgetown. Georgetown was only a 10 minute walk away. The boutiques and restaurants in Georgetown are so cute. I could stay in D.C forever.

If you're planning on traveling to D.C soon, this is what I recommend:

Newseum: It's my favorite museum in the world. I love journalism and the news. There's so much to learn about the news, and it's so interesting- regardless if you're a news junkie or not. Here, you can see a part of the Berlin Wall, view 9/11 from the news side, and see every newspaper cover from the day you visit.You can even take part in a newscast! The top floor has a balcony, providing a gorgeous, panoramic view of D.C.

Current exhibit in the Newseum about JFK
Image taken by me

Panorama taken on the top of the Newseum balcony
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Smithsonians: While a museum that everyone knows about, the Smithsonians have their famous repuation for a reason. There's so much to learn at the Smithsonians, and they're all a walking distance away from each other. Don't forget to go to the National Zoo, you can see the pandas there!

United States Holocaust Memorial Museum: There is so much information in this museum about the Holocaust, people start at the top floor of the museum, and work their way down. Each floor is a different time period of the Holocaust. There are sometimes Holocaust survivors you can meet on the bottom floor. When I went to D.C with my eighth grade class, we got to meet a Holocaust survivor. She had written a book about her experience, and we learned so much while talking to her. The museum is very powerful, and is one you'll never forget. (You aren't allowed to take photos in this museum.)

Memorials & Monuments: The memorials and monuments are so beautiful. You can learn a lot about the people and wars that the memorials and monuments are about. It's nice to have a place to pay your respects to all those who served in the wars.

Lincoln Memorial
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Sweetgreen: If you don't have a Sweetgreen in your area, try it out in D.C! It's a chic fast and healthy food place. Sweetgreen sells salads, wraps, soups, and some Sweetgreen locations offer Sweetflow, their frozen yogurt. I got the earth bowl (warm grains + organic arugula with roasted chicken, white cheddar, grape tomatoes, raw corn and spicy broccoli; topped with a pesto vinaigrette) at Sweetgreen, and it was delicious! The people working were friendly and happy to help. It came with a slice of bread, and I couldn't finish it all in one sitting! It's a lot of food. It's delicious, healthy, and a great alternative to fast food. That March bowl (organic mesclun + shredded kale with roasted sweet potatoes, caramelized onions, local blue cheese, bacon and candied pecans; topped with our housemade balsamic vinaigrette) looks like it was made for me, so I really wish I was in D.C currently for that March bowl.

Earth bowl
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Meiwah: Best Kung Pao chicken I've ever had. This Chinese restaurant was really close to our hotel, so we decided to try some food from ther. The Kung Pao chicken was so good, that we got it again the next night. Many famous people have ate at Meiwah; in fact, it's one of Bill Clinton's favorite restaurants! (Didn't take a photo of the food or restaurant, and we ordered take out... whoops!)

I love D.C! I would love to have a future living there! Those Georgetown apartments are so charming. The excitement in the D.C air is enough to make me want to move there. Any other places you love in D.C? Where did I miss? I'll make sure to add them to my "must visit" list for the next time I'm in D.C, which will hopefully be very soon! ;)

Happiness.

What is happiness? I honestly think that happiness is being at peace with yourself. Despite all the crazy that the world throws at you, you know it will all be okay in the end.

After hearing a lecture about happiness in robotics club and a deep talk with my true friend H, I think I've found that. I've been really stressed these past weeks, and I think something as simple as a true, genuine conversation was enough for me to make some internal changes.

Here's how I found peace with myself...

1. Do what you love.
2. Be with who you love. (Friends, relationships, family, peers)
3. Don't knock yourself down.
4. Be optimistic.
5. Put yourself first.
6. Prioritize.
7. Organize.
8. Be healthy.
9. Get enough sleep.
10. Read.
11. Educate yourself.
12. Don't care what others think about you.
13. Forgive others.
14. Forgive yourself.
15. Do what you think is the most important.

I'll elaborate on each of these bullets and my personal stories later on. I just wanted to share. I hope everyone is happy! And if you're not currently happy, I hope you find yourself happy soon.

I'll leave you with the wise words of our amazing speaker from robotics today: "You don't want to wake up one day and find that you're not smiling. Do what makes you happy."

Let's Go On an Adventure... Houston, Texas

Over spring break, I got a chance to go to Houston, Texas. I have a lot of family there, and I love it so much. The food, the atmosphere, the people- just everything is great. Here are some of my favorite parts of the Houston area.

Top Golf: If you like golf, you've got to check this place out! Playing golf off the balcony with a panoramic view of Houston? It doesn't get better than that. I recommend asking for a booth on the top floor, and eating the french fries. So good!

Top Golf fun!
Photo via my Instagram

The Galleria: The ultimate mall. There's everything from Gucci to Tory to Henri Bendel to an ice skating rink. Yes you heard me right. Ice. Skating. Rink. What else do you need? A shopaholic's paradise!

Galleria during the winter... stunning!
Image via Hotel Granduca Houston's blog

Shipley Do-Nuts: Shipley Do-Nuts' headquarters is located in Houston. If you don't have a Shipley in your area, (they're located in Texas, Louisiana, Arkansas, Tennessee, Mississippi & Alabama) you should definitely try it out when you get the chance! I am not a huge fan of donuts, but I'm a huge fan of Shipley Do-Nuts!

YUM.
Image via Shipley Do-Nuts' website

Kolache Factory: I don't know where Kolaches are, but they're not in my area. There are a ton of Kolache Factories in Houston. So so good! Kolache is a pastry filled with a food item, such as cheese, bacon or fruit. So tasty, and such a good breakfast item!

Kolaches are sooo good. Sooo good.
Image via Houston Press' blog

Blue Bell Factory Tour: Love Blue Bell? So do I! Disclaimer: I personally haven't been on this tour, but my cousin went when she was younger, and said it was a lot of fun. They give a free sample of ice cream during the tour... so yay for ice cream! Blue Bell is such good ice cream, always fresh and always good. Blue Bell headquarters are near Houston, so yay!

Still a half gallon of ice cream!
Image via Blue Bell's website

Taste of Texas: Such good food. Mainly steak... it is a "Taste of Texas," after all. ;) You should get a reservation, if you can, because the wait is crazy long! There is amazing steak, an amazing salad bar, and amazing concessions while you wait for your table. (free popcorn, sodas and chips & salsa... yes please!)

Pappasitos' Cantina: Best. Tex Mex. Ever. The food is insanely good, Mexican food is the best. If possible, go on Wednesday because that's half price fajita day! The fajitas are amazing! So so so good. My favorite restaurant in Texas. For sure.

Houston Zoo: I visited this zoo when I was younger, I haven't been back in a while... but who doesn't love the zoo? Monkeys, elephants and ostriches- oh my!

You can feed the giraffes from 11am-2pm; it's only $5 for giraffe food!
Image via Houston Zoo website

The Children's Museum of Houston: I visited this museum when I was younger, and it was my paradise. We've came back recently, and it still is my paradise! They renovated the museum and made it even cooler... if that's possible! You can even get a Kid Card which is an ATM card that you can even play with electronically! And that's just one part of the museum... there's a great outdoor area with water play, if the weather is nice! The museum is seriously the coolest thing, if you have kids or younger siblings, or just wanna go check it out- there's nothing better to do!

The kids can climb on this.
And yes, I did too. Two years ago.
Too fun to resist!
Image via Children's Museum of Houston website

So much fun!
Image via Children's Museum of Houston website

Have you ever been to the Houston area? Or in Texas? I went to San Antonio once when I was younger on a weekend trip with some cousins, an aunt and an uncle. I mainly remember visiting the caverns, it was a while ago! I love Houston! Definitely check out Texas if you ever get the chance. :)

Let's Go On an Adventure... Packing & Traveling Tips

I love traveling so much, but I hate packing. I hate unpacking too, unless I'm unpacking the new stuff I got. I'm going to Houston, Texas with my family over spring break, and I'm so excited! But I'm not excited to pack...

Here are my packing tips, and my favorite things to pack.

1.) Make a checklist of everything you need!

Clothes, always bring extra underwear & socks

• Pajamas
• Toiletries
• Camera, battery and charger
• Phone charger
• Something to read in the plane / car
• Necessities: hand sanitizer, chapstick, tissues, lotion, feminine products, (even if it's not your time of the month... you never know!) hair ties & headband, headphones, gum
• Purse (I prefer a crossbody for traveling!)
• Extra pair of shoes
• Depending on where you're traveling...
• Sunglasses
• Beach towel(s), swimsuit(s)
• Sunscreen
• Cheap pair of flip flops (if you're needing something for the outdoor shower, or shoes to lie on the beach unprotected... you wouldn't want to get your Jacks stolen, or for when you're going down to the hotel's breakfast, and don't want to put on real shoes, or around the hotel room & shower)
• Pillow (if needed)

2.) Check the weather before packing. When I went to Savannah, it was freezing in my city because of the Polar Vortex, but really warm in Savannah. You don't want to be dying of heat stroke in jeans, or freezing in shorts.

3.) Make sure to update the music/movies on your phone/laptop/iPad before traveling. There's nothing better than listening to some new music, or watching a new movie in the car, or on the plane. Treat yourself to the latest edition of your favorite magazine or newspaper for the trip. (I love The New Yorker, New York Times and Wall Street Journal!)

4.) Wear comfortable clothes during the ride there. You don't want to be uncomfortable when you're staying still for a long period of time.

5.) Bring your necessities on your carry on! There's nothing worse than needing chapstick, or gum on the plane ride and not having any. Also put a jacket or sweater in your carry on, in case you ever get cold.

6.) Stay hydrated during the ride, you don't want your first day there to be you lying in bed, complaining about your horrible headache.

What else do you think? Anything I forgot to include? What are your packing necessities? Have you ever forgotten to pack something?

What do I use?
The North Face Jester backpack, 
Vera Bradley Pleated Tote,
Vera Bradley Large Duffel,
Retired Print: Hello Dahlia! (Fall 2010) 
Inside: Nike Women's tempo track shorts 3.5" (similar pair here)
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